My First Speaking Engagement: A Journey of Courage, Connection, and New Beginnings
Being invited as a featured speaker at the Women’s Conference and Breast Cancer Fundraiser in San Antonio, Texas, was one of the most transformative experiences of my life. It wasn’t just an honor; it was deeply personal. As a breast cancer survivor, the event represented more than an opportunity to share my story—it was a chance to celebrate life, advocate for awareness, and connect with others whose lives had been touched by this disease.
When I first received the invitation, I was both thrilled and nervous. This would be my first time speaking to an audience of this size, and I couldn’t help but question if I was ready. However, the cause was too close to my heart to let fear hold me back. I knew this was an opportunity to give back, to inspire, and to offer hope to others on their journeys.
Preparing to Speak
As I prepared for the event, I spent hours reflecting on my journey. I thought about the day I received my diagnosis, the rollercoaster of emotions that followed, and the strength I found through faith, family, and community. I wanted to convey not just the challenges but also the lessons I’d learned—about resilience, self-love, and the importance of early detection and support.
On the day of the conference, as I stood waiting for my opportunity to speak, a mix of excitement and nerves coursing through me. I reminded myself that this moment wasn’t about perfection; it was about authenticity. I was there to share my truth and to remind others that they were not alone.
Stepping Onto the Stage
As I stepped onto the stage and faced the audience, I was overwhelmed by the warmth and love in the room. Women from all walks of life were gathered, united by a shared cause and a desire to make a difference. I began by sharing my story—the fear and uncertainty of my diagnosis, the physical and emotional toll of treatment, and the incredible community that had carried me through it all.
I spoke about the power of hope and the importance of advocating for one’s health. I emphasized that surviving breast cancer was not just about beating the disease but about embracing life with newfound gratitude and purpose. God had a purpose and a reason for this very season and I was going to embrace it. As I looked into the audience, I saw nods of understanding, tears of empathy, and even smiles of encouragement. It was a moment of connection I will never forget.
A New Chapter
That day marked the beginning of a new chapter in my life. After my speech, several attendees approached me to share their stories and thank me for speaking. Among them was my future publisher for a season, he expressed interest in helping me bring my journey to a larger audience. That encounter led to a publishing opportunity that would allow me to share my stories in a ways I never imagined.
More importantly, this event ignited a passion for speaking that I hadn’t fully realized before. It showed me that my voice could make a difference, that my story could inspire hope, and that I could use my experiences to empower others. It also lead to the development of @The Healing Conferences that I produce and host to this day.
Reflecting on the Experience
Looking back, being a featured speaker at the Women’s Conference and Breast Cancer Fundraiser was more than just a milestone; it was a turning point. It taught me the power of vulnerability and the importance of sharing our stories. It reminded me that even our most difficult experiences can be transformed into something meaningful when we use them to uplift others.
As a breast cancer survivor, this event was a profound reminder of the strength and resilience of the human spirit. It was an opportunity to honor those we’ve lost, celebrate those who continue to fight, and advocate for a future where no one has to face this disease alone.
Moving Forward
That first speaking engagement in San Antonio not only opened doors for me professionally but also deepened my commitment to making a difference. It was the start of a journey that continues to inspire me every day. Whether through writing, speaking, or simply listening, I am dedicated to using my voice to spread hope, raise awareness, and remind others that even in our darkest moments, there is light to be found.
To anyone considering sharing their story, I encourage you to take the leap. You never know whose life you might touch or how your words might inspire someone else’s journey. And as I learned that day in San Antonio, sometimes the scariest steps lead to the most incredible new beginnings.
